ばか！バカ！　馬鹿ー月！

Uh...the last time I checked I was still a boy/guy. Let me check again quickly here...yep, I still am. *wipes off the sweat* You know, you actually had me worried for a second.

Did you already love someone that already has a boyfriend/girlfriend?

Once, yes, but I got over that one quickly. Whew.

Did you feel bad?

Not really.

Was she ever interested in ya?

I do not think so, but others were fooled.

Due to the fact I start a new semester soon, I feel it necessary to bump this topic for myself.

Mostly so I can describe what short girls I see.

But, more importantly to ask the question- Has anyone found any girl (or boy) they like this season?

Plenty.

But whether I will find then interesting to pursue? Well that will be debatable!

I find it hard to fall in love, but also hard to forget.

Probably take me a few months before i can jump back into sea again....

My garden became a jungle, my brains are a library, and finding love is like walking in a desert.

Dunno how my life became like that.

What happened kira?

Random thought: Is it possible to lust after one's husband or wife? I ask this after having a flashback of watching a "The Simpsons" episode where Flanders calls Reverend Lovejoy to ask him a similar question. We might all laugh, but, if one thinks about it, the question is a valid one. So, what are your opinions on this one? Discuss civilly.

Of course it is possible to lust after one's spouse. They are still a person. Societal norms have them as "off limits", but that sometimes just makes it seem all the better. I think that most just shrug off the lust they feel to someone when they know that person is married, but it is certainly possible to lust after one.

Now, here's the better question:

What do you think of a college student dating a high school student?

One of my friend is in that situation... he's lucky

hocchan, I get the feeling that you misunderstood my question. I am asking whether it is possible for the spouse to lust after the other spouse (i.e., the husband lusting after the wife or the wife lusting after the husband).

As to your question, it generally is not a very good idea for multiple reasons, although I know a couple where that worked because they were a year apart.