Hugs / taking physical abuse can never hurt. Nor can stuffed animals, smiles, etc, etc.
Basically, you have to make it up to them on an emotional level, and there are ways to specifically not do that.
Maybe this is just too fast, too real -Stay Close, Parabelle
Snails see the benefits, the beauty in every inch -Snails, The Format
You thought you could find happiness just over that green hill; you thought you would be satisfied, but you never will learn to be still
-Learn To Be Still, The Eagles