I do not mean to be accusatory here, but your comments have made me curious.
Why would you ignore her getting picked on? Is not getting picked on and getting beaten up really just different forms of violence and abuse? Also, what if she was your friend or relative?
Being the white knight at heart that I am, I would probably resort to helping, but try not to resort to violence. I find that words can cut pretty deep, and the fact I'm 6"5 helps with the intimidation factor. If it should come to it though, I have no problems hitting girls.
ainsoph9 wrote:Why would you ignore her getting picked on? Is not getting picked on and getting beaten up really just different forms of violence and abuse? Also, what if she was your friend or relative?
I've experimented many cases where the girl isn't picked on, but rather simply teased by friends. So if I am not sure of what's happening, I'm not interfering.
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ainsoph9 wrote:Well, the difference between teasing and being picked on is often starkly different in appearance.
Not really. I noticed that in both cases, girls all have a smile on their face. Of course, sometimes girls show a dreadful expression, but in most of the cases they try to laugh a bit because the more they resist, the more others will pick on them.
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Here's something: If you were to be declined by the person you like, what would you do? (AKA Friend zone) do you think it's wrong to keep feeling like you do, or would you back off of the person or anything?
I'd still like them because that feeling never goes away, but I'd wane them out of my life.
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Nothing will change in our relationship. Well, I never loved a girl, so that's pretty hard for me to imagine what would happen. And no, I'm not gay, in case someone asked me the question like usual.
I think I remember a girl who confessed to me ... I was behaving like Yuuji in BakaTest : treating everyone equally (bullies excluded). She confessed in the school, when I was talking with classmates. I quickly rejected her, since she was not my type of girls. Then, I created some distance between us. Now, I "don't know" her anymore.
This could be something of my imagination, I'm not really sure if it happened, it's really blurry in my mind.
Yea, well the whole thing happened to me a bit ago. She says we can't really go out because we are going to different schools, which is a very logical answer, but I don't know how to act now. While yea its still awkward, but I told her I won't change how I feel so I'm kinda stuck in no mans land; not really friend-zoned, but not really doing anything.